A role as father is a commitment.
The Most Highest Deity, is the best example of this. The Author and Finisher of all Men and Humankind, creatures that creep upon the earth....
Men, not just African American Males are born to believe it's okay to father children and not be committed to them. Commitment is lacking to our struggle, where are the real Fathers? I mean we are really caught up on the drive by love affairs, half on a baby R Kelly comes to mind.
We really do not have any true examples of, that type of commitment but, once you take on the role as a father even if you have legally adopted a child, once the marriage or relationship sank didn't mean no responsibility to the care for the child ... lets get real!
Man Up and be that father, a "daddy" any two people can make a baby. Why should a child suffer because of wrong decision or bad choice. None of us can choose our parents, siblings, or relatives. We come into this world innocent butt naked, with no consciousness of worldly belongings, we unconditionally love our parents, we have to trust them to do the right things.
Now let me kick the scripture as normal it's not me but GOD speaking through me, to me and I love to spread the Love.....
Gen 35:11 And God said unto him, I am God Almighty: be fruitful and multiply; a nation and a company of nations shall be of thee, and kings shall come out of thy loins; KJV
We have some strong role models our first African American President, Barack is a beautiful example of what real Kings are made of, and he can't change his mind and walk or run, getting locked up and put into drama being distracted by so many beautiful women in the World..... African, Asian, European, Latino so many choices.
When you make a commitment to a partner or marry regardless of the challenges, growing pains is what makes any relationship stronger. Once, you become a Father when the going gets rough, people fall short we become dismayed. Often times looking for another mate on the side which complicates life even more. Remember the young people in your life the adolescent watch your every move and often emulate the same behavior once they've grown into a man or woman, a reflection of you.
Proverbs 22:6-8King James Version (KJV)
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
7 The rich ruleth over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender.
8 He that soweth iniquity shall reap vanity: and the rod of his anger shall fail.
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