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Thursday, November 17, 2005

JUST FREEING MY MIND

Mother, mother, there's too many of you cryin - brother, brother, brotha there's far too many of you dyin, You know we got to find a way to bring some lovin here today.... Father, father we don't need to escalate you see war is not the answer - for only love can conquer hate...... We gotta find a way to bring some understanding here today... Talk to me so you can see What's Goin On....
Marvin Gaye 1971 (Song whats Going On - from the Album What's Going On)

JUST FREEING MY MIND - When this idea came to me it sounded off loudly yeah right a blog site - then my head told me do it with the help of a friend because you both get so much information and you been through enough - I surely can be a vessel share with your sisters and brothers; I didn't have any knowledge of how to start a blog, but I then took it to another level and spoke it out loud a friend and co-worker who had one for family members and kicked the idea around with an email buddy. I Couldn't stop thinking about it. All God inspired ideas or plans never make sense to the world outside of the people whom he chooses for instance, if you ponder on how he used the great leaders like when he told Abraham he would be a father at 99 years old and his wife Sara was having a baby past child bearing years, she laughed inside of herself because it didn't make any sense. But God had a plan and Sarah had a baby. Moses a fugitive from Egypt went back into that nation to save a nation, Noah building an Ark all those years during a period of time when it had never rained upon the earth. Folks thought they actually lost their mind and laughed. But GOD had a plan then and he still moving now, sincerely I don't have a clue where all this is going but my prayer is that this blog site be a open vehicle a vessel to inspire and enlighten all my Brothers and Sisters, young and old in the community even outside of the community. Wisdom has no boundaries and I certainly don't have all the answers. I learned a long, long time ago that you never know from where your help will come.

The Millions More Movement made me reflect on my contribution to the Black community as I sat and watched on CSPAN less than 20 miles away from the event... They were kicking the statistics and some of them I already knew. But this is a tiny contribution on my part I know I can do more and pray for GOD to stretch my portion and make me able to give more back to a community that raised me up. I don't have much wealth (yet), very meager means so I have to be creative and pray for direction of my purpose. Right or Wrong with all my assets and defects I am a reflection of my family.

KICKIN THE STATISTICS
I am blown away by factors festering inside our culture seeking to destroy it. Our brothers and sisters incarceration number is higher than any other culture in the U.S.A. They are doing time inside these Corporate Prisions some have Life sentences on 3 strikes violations for petty drug crimes, who can't afford good legal counsel and many of them committed these crimes out of hopelessnes, addictive behavior or some form of mental illness. Now these Corporate prisons trading on the NYSE have a new form of slavery - corporate slavery. Some of us more fortunate take our freedom for granted while others take the bait likes rats to cheese....Can't get a decent job sling some dope/sell some sex committ some other crime and land in jail end up right back as a repeat offender. Then some of our parents groom their children and cling to the dream of getting out of the ghetto by throwing a ball, bouncing a ball or a snappin a big booty on a music video, singing, or rappin as a means for seeking fortune and fame. Let's go a little deeper if none of that works out let's take the easy way out getting high to escape what we really feeling go to the club or the go go, trying hook up with a so called playa or baller etc... It doesn't matter who you are this affects all of us...Unwed mothers rate the highest among OUR young sisters in the Black community. Ignoring this new down low brothers issue, Lord knows how many men exist who ain't gonna tell it out of ridicule and shame. HIV/Aids/STD's are at a all time high among Black women between the ages of 15-35 in our community. We spend an average of 600+ Billion dollars in the market place, yet we have the highest unemployment rates and drop out rates in the nation inside our urban communities. We have the lowest SAT and test scores in our educational schools systems nation wide. We have the highest numbers for single parent households suburbs and urban communities. We also have the highest divorce rate too, the Christian community ranks highest amongst divorcees. So I'm not doing this blog just for me, but for my family who doesn't always love you back. But are sometimes the one's who hurt us the most for lack of moral support. It's easier to watch folks crash and burn then say things like "Awe I knew that __ wasn't gonna make out", but in spite of all that danced in my head...I challenged myself not to care about what none of y'all thought or how loudly you may laugh, about participation or lack of thereof.... I forged ahead.

I didn't make this information up (although I don't have exact numbers up that's the simplistic dummy downed version of the statistics). This is what made me wanna holler but nobody's listening... Why do black enterprises fail end up selling out for profit? How come we don't buy or support black owned businesses? Why don't we have black leaders in the top echelons of the polictical structure? Why is there McDonald's Restaurants and other fast food carryouts saturating our neighborhoods? Why don't we ever come together as one voice and stop blaming others for our shortcomings?

During the black renaissance period Madam CJ Walker was one of the first black female entrepreneurs, and a millionaire. They were many affluent blacks prior to the depression, in spite of what was going on down south. We always had that problem with complexioned vs. The other complexion, good hair vs. nappy hair. Still in spite of all of that once upon a time we were unified as a black nation prior to the late 50's up until around 1964. Then we got mad as hell and decided we were not gonna take it anymore. Ok now we got some civil rights, and some voting rights but we lost some values in the process. We once helped a brother or sister when they were down until they were able to get up on their feet we clothed each other, we feed each other, we sacrificed for one another - and just plain loved each other. That's how those people accomplished so much during that period. Folks migrated from the south didn't always have a roof over their head, left families behind to start fresh in the north. The erosion came after the civil rights act and the voting rights act was passed. Our community was deliberately targeted to be destroyed. Their were organizations in the late 1960's that tried to pull us together. Why did they fail? In my lonely opinion because No one stood together with them and most decent and respectable blacks believed the hype and the propaganda driven by those that sought to divide us and the news media.


WHY DID I DO THIS
These are some of the issues/questions that have puzzled me for quite some time, we will go out and spend major bucks on cosmetics and material items to impress folks and equate that with our intelligence or financial stature turn right around frown on the brother struggling with the drug addiction, eating out of trash cans begging for nickels and dimes for a pint of WildIris Rose. How many of us stop and ponder the thought "But for the grace of GOD there go I." How many of us stretch ourselves by giving to without expecting something in return even the pat on the old back? Not bashing because I am not guilt free but We use the noun Nigga without thinking sometimes - around folks who ain't skin to us and watch them take offense of our using the term. I realize we have our way of expression akin to speaking a foreign language - it's called profanity we speak it fluently. We know when to use it and when not to, not all of us but many of us. Our children use that as a second language, not many of our children are taught or encouraged to speak other languages like French, Spanish, Latin... Now we not talking about our familes who moved away from the ghetto way out into the upper middle class suburbs to the good life (even the Jefferson's stayed in town on the east side). LOL Some of our affluent/elite have managed to provide a different environment for their fourth and fifth generations. But what about the one's who just can't get it quite right - the son's and daughter's rely on military, government grants, student loans, and have average SAT scores... Who can't escape generational curses....When are we gonna stop and realize that we are one! Black family in America I don't care who you are including Bob Johnson to Oprah Winfrey no matter how you got here 10% of black DNA makes you 100% BLACK. I heard my Bishop say everybody who skin to me ain't kin to me.... Well, ok., but we still have to keep the faith and extend our love to some who might be incapable or unwilling to give it back. Prayer goes a long way, but we including myself can do much more. GOD made us that way, remember we are the culture who invented making a way out of no way.

So I don't know about you but I really reject the idea that we are jealous, sneaky, selfish, self-seeking, lazy, greedy, can't trust them to do a honest day's labor, etc.... You know what "they say" a worthless bunch of people. Taking from the screenwriter/author Mario Puzio who wrote the line in the script of Godfather Part I the scene: the meeting called by Don Corleone - the Don from Kansas City made a comment I have no objection about opening up the drug trade, but keep it away from the schools keep it respectable put it in the dark neighborhoods the line was "They're animals anyway, who cares if they lose their souls." Well I CARE!!!!!

I announced this blog site and truly am depending on regular input from a few folks whom I still believe have a vision much to offer in terms of broadening the scope getting our focus back towards unity. Nothing is impossible for GOD with his guidance and your help we can take an assessment of ourselves, our progress, or lack thereof. By sharing with each other. I have some received positive comments and I am encouraged.

YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS
Let me define what I mean by contributions it not for MONEY, this is a free site.... OK Contributions = YOUR INPUT, KNOWLEDGE, INSIGHT, POETRY, CRITIQUE'S, INFO ABOUT INVESTMENTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE FINANCES, HOW DO I QUALIFY TO BUY A HOME WITH POOR CREDIT, TELL ME HOW TO CLEAN UP CREDIT, DO YOU SPONSOR A PROGRAM GIVING A SEMINAR OR CLASS ABOUT THIS, etc... Some of us have more degrees than a thermometer have attended the best Historical Black Colleges money can buy and have amassed great wealth, may have never suffered a day; then their are some who have hard knocks degrees PHD survivor's have gone through a storm or two or three, infidelity, addictions of all kinds, bankruptcy.. My input is just one view, if we all are sharing, commenting on topics some of you may have a broader insight and better perspectives about how we can get there. Well, tell us how you made it through to have a successful lives/lifestyle... What can you do to help your brother or sister who might feel hopeless find hope? You can shine a light offer some guidance in many areas. Can you help somebody improve their relationship with GOD, finances, start a business, maybe buy real estate? Or come closer to trusting/belief in GOD just by your testimony. This is what OUR BLOG is about.... Last night, I entered the empowering spirits blogger and linked to the WORD Urban Network Live, backed out and clicked on the link to Capitol News website and watched a replay of the Rosa Parks Homegoing Service in Detroit on NOV 2 that I missed. The links promote black owned businesses and urban websites. News and Politics that affect us.

Well, I guess I'll be like old Noah and all my folks, ( whom I love very much), who may tune in for today's blogger and probably say "awe Shelle too serious about this blog site," but check this out.... If don't none of y'all comment, My faith is so strong I have an assignment to fulfill. I'm going to keep posting each and everyday and if I don't help but one living soul it will be for the good and the Glory of GOD. I am seeking no gratification, it's not too much to ask and to some maybe seems like a waste of time. "What good can this do, what do she expect to accomplish." This is my response to my skeptics "I've been Blessed beyond measure, exceedingly and abudantly whatever I could ask or think, imagine - VERY Much - To much is given, much is required". end quote! Like the old hymn goes "If I can help somebody then my living shall not be in vain."

I'm praying for my entire family not just the seeds produced from my body, but that we all prosper beyond measure to become whole. Black seeds keep on growning......So don't ever say nobody cares because that just wouldn't be true. JESUS loves you and so do I.

Peace & Blessings
submitted by Shelle
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ANNOUNCEMENTS
Criticism of Voting Law Was Overruled By Dan Eggen
excerpt from Washington Post 11/17/05
A team of Justice Department lawyers and analysts who reviewed a Georgia voter-identification law recommended rejecting it because it was likely to discriminate against black voters, but they were overruled the next day by higher-ranking officials at Justice, according to department documents. The Justice Department has characterized the "pre-clearance" of the controversial Georgia voter-identification program as a joint decision by career and political appointees in the Civil Rights Division. Republican proponents in Georgia have cited federal approval of the program as evidence that it would not discriminate against African Americans and other minorities. But an Aug. 25 staff memo obtained by The Washington Post recommended blocking the program because Georgia failed to show that the measure would not dilute the votes of minority residents, as required under the Voting Rights Act. The memo, endorsed by four of the team's five members, also said the state had provided flawed and incomplete data. The team found significant evidence that the plan would be "retrogressive," meaning that it would reduce blacks' access to the polls. A day later, on Aug. 26, the chief of the department's voting rights section, John Tanner, told Georgia officials that the program could go forward. "The Attorney General does not interpose any objection to the specified changes," he said in a letter to them. Eric Holland, a Justice Department spokesman, said in a statement this week that "disagreements are healthy in a debate" and that voting rights decisions are made "after reviewing both the pros and cons very carefully."

"All individual data indicates that the state\'s African-American citizens are, if anything, slightly more likely than white citizens to possess one of the necessary forms of identification," Moschella wrote to Sen. Christopher S. Bond (R-Mo.) in defense of the department\'s decision. State Sen. Bill Stephens, a Republican who helped win passage of the legislation, said the Justice Department\'s approval was vital because of the restrictions faced by Georgia under the Voting Rights Act. "That is the most crucial part of any elections legislation we pass," said Stephens, who is a candidate for secretary of state. "We know we have to await the Justice Department\'s pre-clearance of virtually anything we do." State Rep. Tyrone L. Brooks Sr., a Democrat and president of the Georgia Association of Black Elected Officials, said he was not surprised by the Justice Department\'s position in the case. "Some of my colleagues told me early on that, because of politics in the Bush administration, no matter what the staff recommendation was, this would be approved by the attorney general," Brooks said. "It\'s disappointing that the staff recommendation was not accepted, because that has been the norm since 1965."
for entire article see www.washingtonpost.com
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Wednesday, November 16, 2005

I GOT FLOWERS TODAY


"YOU TAKE MY HAND AND I'LL TAKE YOUR HAND BABY, TOGETHER WE'LL GET AWAY... THIS MUCH SADNESS IS TO MUCH SORROW, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO STAY. SHA LA LA THE WEATHER SHE COULD DRAG ME OVER THE RAINBOW AND SEND ME AWAY"
"DOWN BY THE RIVER I SHOT MY BABY.... SHOT HER AWAY DOWN BY THE RIVER....."

THE LATE DRUMMER BUDDY MILES - 1970 (Song - Down by the River FROM THE ALBUM BUDDY MILES CHANGES

We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said, because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day. Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare, I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry cause he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today, and it wasn't mother's day or any other special day. Last night, he beat me up again, it was much worse than all the other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral! Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered enough courage to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today.......If you are against domestic abuse, please pass this along to everyone, NOT just women.

submitted by: Shelle via - Lannie Hardy 2005

Domestic Violence is ugly, and it in no way does it demonstrate love or a kind of morbid affection for it's victim(s). Most of us either know of or have been touched by this vicious cycle. Growing up in a home where I witnessed first hand how ugly it can get on all levels. Now to add to the agony we have brothers on the DL (down low). It's time to open up the lines of communication - Can you stand the pain? 

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Tuesday, November 15, 2005

EYES WIDE SHUT


Eyes Wide Shut
Date: Sunday, July 17, 2005By:
Bishop T. D. Jakes, Special to BlackAmericaWeb.com

Have you ever done something that you knew didn’t make sense but you did it anyway? You know, dumb stuff like going three days without taking your insulin…spending all your money before paying your bills or getting into a relationship with a person who you knew was bad news, but he or she was so fine, you just couldn’t pass up the opportunity?

There are always warning signs, but many times we ignore them. People tell you that entering the relationship will only lead to disappointment. The doctor tells you that taking your medicine consistently is crucial. You know that it will take you three months of robbing Peter to pay Paul to get your bills back on track if you overspend. And yet, we fall into the same traps time and time again, rather learning from previous mistakes and making wiser choices. In other words, we go into situations with our eyes wide open.

God gives us options to choose from every day. He allows us to decide whether we will follow Him or go the opposite direction. He’s given us the free will to create the life we want. Often we think we know better than He does the things we should or should not do and we ignore the warning signs.

We’re like moths attracted to light. When a moth sees a fire, he is automatically drawn to it. He dances around the fire trying to figure out how he can get into the light without getting burned by the fire. Likewise, we try to outsmart the situation to get the things we want but it is impossible to do.

When you’re on the path to destiny, the devil will always send something or someone to distract and ultimately destroy you. That’s what happened to Samson. The enemy sent an attractive, seductive woman, Delilah, to distract Samson and uncover his secret of strength. What amazes me is that Samson knew he was being set up by his enemy!

He kept playing with fire until he was eventually burned by it. He became vulnerable, fell in love with Delilah and against his better judgement told her his secret. He went into the situation with his eyes wide open. Without knowing it he lost his strength and eventually his sight. Then his eyes became wide shut. When he tried to muster up the strength he once had he couldn’t do it.

Sometimes God disappoints us by refusing to immediately respond when we get in trouble. He doesn’t enjoy being the spare tire we just take out for emergency purposes. He wants us to adhere to the warning signs He places in front of us when our eyes are open. When we fall into situations that we know we should walk away from, we choose to walk in with our eyes wide shut.

Spending time with God daily in prayer positions us to overcome the temptations we encounter. He reveals things to us and as a result we become more sensitive to His direction. Decide today that you will choose God’s way. The Bible says we show that we love Him when we are obedient. Make good choices today. Pay attention to the warning signs and choose the path God has set for you!

“Eyes Wide Shut” is an excerpt from the series entitled Secret Place.
Author Bishop T.D. Jakes

Submitted by: Shelle

Sunday, November 13, 2005

I'M BETTER THAN THIS

I'm Better Than This




Date: Monday, September 19, 2005
By: Bishop T. D. Jakes, Special to BlackAmericaWeb.com

There are some people who go through a complete metamorphosis in life. They change from the old sinful, nasty talking, whoremongering, pornography internet surfing, crack smoking, lying, thieving person they used to be into an entirely new person.
In fact some of the people you work with, go to church with or live in your neighborhood have come out of a past that you would not believe! Fortunately for us, there is nothing too extreme for God to erase from our past. He can take the gutter-most to the uttermost at anytime and anywhere.
The Apostle Paul came out of a troubled past. I mean he had major issues. He was a controversial misfit, a terrorist murderer and a God hater. Yet he is the most prolific writer of the New Testament. Without his input, we would not know how to truly relate to God and enjoy the benefits of having a relationship with Him.

After the Damascus Road experience, Paul turned his entire life over to Christ. God saved him, but no one wanted anything to do with him. Isn’t it amazing how you can make a complete turnaround in your life and people will still treat you like you’re nothing?

Some of the most inspiring messages you will ever hear from people who have been through anything, came as a result of their greatest messes. Paul was once the “chief” of sinners, but he excelled in ministry because he was confident in who he was in Christ.

Once you accept Jesus, your identification changes and so does your position in life. All the old stuff is erased through forgiveness and you become a new creature in Christ. He paid the price for every sin you will ever commit when He gave up His life on the cross. In other words, He’s already paid the debt you would otherwise owe.

Look at it this way, if I paid off your mortgage, the mortgage company would have no right to call you about a bill ever again. It’s paid for! That’s what the enemy tries to do when he uses other people to bring up your past. He tries to convince you that you’re the same person you used to be. However, once you realize who you are in Christ, you can look your accusers straight in the eye and tell them, “I’m better than this!”

You may be working through some things right now – we all are – but you can change your condition by aligning yourself with your position. As God’s child, you have a right to the best life has to offer.

It’s time to live. People may be used to seeing you live with a defeated mentality, fear or insecurity, but you’re better than that now. Start acting like it and begin pursuing the things God is showing you in your dreams. Believe me; the things you see in your dreams are more real than the things you see with your eyes. It’s time to step out into new territory and like Paul, forget those things that are behind and press toward the great things that lie ahead. Now pursue!

This excerpt was taken from the series entitled I’m Better Than This.
Author Bishop T.D. Jakes


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