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Tuesday, May 10, 2022

"The Great Fall"


"The Great Fall"

It's 2022!


A World without Boundaries

The Information Age 
Knowledge is Power and the prerequisite to Man's Destruction in this Final Age.

Alpha and Omega 
Death was the only Promise made by GOD in the Garden of Eden when he warned Adam his 1st son not to part take of the Trees in the midst of the garden..

Yet curiosity killed the cat, in our case it was an inheritance forfeited in ignorance. 
Even though GOD knew Man had been fooled he made provisions for his survival through time. Based on his obedience.
To this date, we still continue to "Fall" short of HIS Glory, and Divine Will for us his Children. 
We are "The Kingdom" on Earth

While we seek out a Vengeful GOD to destroy Earth, we fail to look at ourselves and how we treat the EARTH and the fullness thereof; we fail to to take in consideration the prejudices we hold against our own flesh and blood Sisters and Brothers in Christ.

Each One of Us belong to GOD.

Somehow we preach prosperity, and tell the world how we love GOD, but fail to deliver each and every time. We often put our own selfishness ahead of being kind and empathetic toward someone outside our tribal community. Then we have different Status Levels within those tribes or groups we tend to call friends and family.

Ignoring the commandments of GOD, his blueprint to prevent repeating the same mistakes expecting different results. Is written all over the both Old and New Testaments. The Bible tells me so... (Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth)
 It actually demonstrates each of the Ages of the stages of mankind's development. He still falls from the same 3 Things that causes us to die in sin.

2 Timothy 3:1

But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days.

Your gold and silver are corroded. Their corrosion will testify against you and eat your flesh like fire. You have hoarded wealth in the last days. 

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

The Valley of Dry Bones



"Son of man, can these bones live?"

 Ezekiel 37:1-9, 3:4-10 

1 The hand of the LORD was upon me, and he brought me out in the Spirit of the LORD and set me down in the middle of the valley; it was full of bones. 2 And he led me around among them, and behold, there were very many on the surface of the valley, and behold, they were very dry. 3 And he said to me, "Son of man, can these bones live?" And I answered, "O Lord GOD, you know." 4 Then he said to me, "Prophesy over these bones, and say to them, O dry bones, hear the word of the LORD. 5 Thus says the Lord GOD to these bones: Behold, I will cause breath to enter you, and you shall live.

9 Then he said to me, "Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to the breath, Thus says the Lord GOD: Come from the four winds, O breath, and breathe on these slain, that they may live." 10 So I prophesied as he commanded me, and the breath came into them, and they lived and stood on their feet, an exceedingly great army.

4 Then He said to me: "Son of man, go to the house of Israel and speak My words to them. 5 For you are not being sent to a people of unintelligible speech or difficult language but to the house of Israel. 6 [You are] not [being sent] to many peoples of unintelligible speech or difficult language, whose words you cannot understand. No doubt, if I sent you to them, they would listen to you. 7 But the house of Israel will not want to listen to you because they do not want to listen to Me. For the whole house of Israel is hardheaded and hardhearted. 8 Look, I have made your face as hard as their faces and your forehead as hard as their foreheads. 9 I have made your forehead like a diamond, harder than flint. Don't be afraid of them or discouraged by [the look on] their faces, even though they are a rebellious house."

10 Next He said to me: "Son of man, listen carefully to all My words that I speak to you and take [them] to heart.



TRANSISTION/ACCEPTANCE-SELF LOVE

 I went through my process of letting go of a bad relationship it hurt. Going through, growing through, and living on the other side was like shedding skin.

The reason why it hurt me was because of my commitment raised my tolerance level to pain. I did do the necessary footwork to plant a seed for growth inwardly. I cried about this and prayed and GOD revealed to me almost as an epiphany experience. That I truly did love this person with his defects and assets too, but if he wasn't willing to acknowledge that there exist a problem how could he become willing to change his ways.  I wasn't willing to come down to his level and he wasn't capable of meet me halfway.

Well, I had to change, my mind, my attitude towards him which evolved from resentment to forgiveness.I held onto the relationship even after he had left, hoping for an apology or closure waiting for his voice to say he's wrong... Wasn't growing it was lingering(wallowing inside my head);Ultimately, I would still be in a relationship. All by myself, with a ex-lover living rent free inside of my emotions, my mind I couldn't begin any new romance. Until I could Let Go of the former relationship completely to allow my heart, mind, and body to finally go back in sync. 

I stood up and trusted what GOD has purposed for me that I'm to be honored, adored, loved just as HE loves me and that I'm an exceptionally gifted Black Woman with much to offer.

Let GO Let GOD



 Finally, GOD allowed me to mature to a level of self acceptance to become willing myself to change and let HIM work on me.... I'm a Kings daughter who deserves the best GOD grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change (other folks) and the courage to change the things that I can (me), and the WISDOM to know the difference.  Stop trying to get folks to come up to where you're at if you lack patience to allow them to grow. 

Don't let anyone with a personality disorder affect your life. They can cause harm.. Words do hurt and over time and can Mame....


Believe in yourself enough know your value despite what anyone says. I know most men often when they're angry of cornered love to refer to us Ladies as "ah you crazy" and use all sorts of superlatives to support such asscine behavior when the conversations get serious or when they can't respond rationally. 

For some males this is a defense mechanism what other best way to stop the dialog is by means of  offense "ATTACK, push the button" out comes the buzz words that tend to take you most of us off our square. Poof here comes "Crazy" we often play right into their hands... well Stand! Stand firm in all your convictions and don't let nobody bring you down...

 Read the article below for it's content. Love yourself enough to not disregard the material try to open your mind up to this.





Personality Disorders and Relationships

List of personality disorders defined in the DSM

The DSM-IV lists ten personality disorders, grouped into three clusters. The DSM also contains a category for behavioral patterns that do not match these ten disorders, but nevertheless exhibit characteristics of a personality disorder. This category is labeled Personality Disorder NOS (Not Otherwise Specified).

Cluster A (odd or eccentric disorders)

Paranoid personality disorder: characterized by irrational suspicions and mistrust of others
Schizoid personality disorder: lack of interest in social relationships, seeing no point in sharing time with others
Schizotypal personality disorder: also avoids social relationships, though out of a fear of people

Cluster B (dramatic, emotional, or erratic disorders)

Antisocial personality disorder: "pervasive disregard for the law and the rights of others."
Borderline personality disorder: extreme "black and white" thinking, instability in relationships, self-image, identity and behavior
Histrionic personality disorder: "pervasive attention-seeking behavior including inappropriate sexual seductiveness and shallow or exaggerated emotions"
Narcissistic personality disorder: "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy"

Cluster C (anxious or fearful disorders)

Avoidant personality disorder: social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation and avoidance of social interaction
Dependent personality disorder: pervasive psychological dependence on other people.
Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (not the same as obsessive-compulsive disorder): characterized by rigid conformity to rules, moral codes, and excessive orderliness
History
The concept of personality disorders goes back to at least the ancient Greeks,[2] and even earlier to the ancient Egyptians, such as the Ebers papyrus.[3]

Various types of personality disorders were later described by medieval Arabic psychological thinkers,[4][5] and many more have been discovered in modern times.


Studies on clusters
A study of almost 600 male college students, averaging almost 30 years of age and who were not drawn from a clinical sample, examined the relationship between childhood experiences of sexual and physical abuse and presently reported personality disorder symptoms. Childhood abuse histories were found to be definitively associated with greater levels of symptomatology. Severity of abuse was found to be statistically significant, but clinically negligible, in symptomatology variance spread over Cluster A, B and C scales.[6]

Child abuse and neglect consistently evidence themselves as antecedent risks to the development of personality disorders in adulthood.[citation needed] In this particular study, efforts were taken to match retrospective reports of abuse with a clinical population that had demonstrated psychopathology from childhood to adulthood who were later found to have experienced abuse and neglect. The sexually abused group demonstrated the most consistently elevated patterns of psychopathology. Officially verified physical abuse showed an extremely strong role in the development of antisocial and impulsive behavior. On the other hand, cases of abuse of the neglectful type that created childhood pathology were found to be subject to partial remission in adulthood.[7]

In 2005, psychologists Belinda Board and Katarina Fritzon at the University of Surrey, UK, interviewed and gave personality tests to high-level British executives and compared their profiles with those of criminal psychiatric patients at Broadmoor Hospital in the UK. They found that three out of eleven personality disorders were actually more common in managers than in the disturbed criminals:

histrionic personality disorder: including superficial charm, insincerity, egocentricity and manipulation
narcissistic personality disorder: including grandiosity, self-focused lack of empathy for others, exploitativeness and independence.
obsessive-compulsive personality disorder: including perfectionism, excessive devotion to work, rigidity, stubbornness and dictatorial tendencies.
They described the business people as successful psychopaths and the criminals as unsuccessful psychopaths.



GOD Bless til next time

Pray for eternal Peace, Grace, and #SHOWSOMELOVE

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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Lady In Waiting ~ A Queen


A Queen


2:10 Now Esther had not disclosed her people or her lineage, for Mordecai had instructed her not to do so. 2:11 And day after day Mordecai used to walk back and forth in front of the court of the harem in order to learn how Esther was doing and what might happen to her.



2:12 At the end of the twelve months that were required for the women, when the turn of each young woman arrived to go to King Ahasuerus – for in this way they had to fulfill their time of cosmetic treatment: six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with perfume and various ointments used by women – 2:13 the woman would go to the king in the following way: Whatever she asked for would be provided for her to take with her from the harem to the royal palace. 2:14 In the evening she went, and in the morning she returned to a separate par of the harem, to the authority of Shaashgaz the king’s eunuch who was overseeing the concubines. She would not go back to the king unless the king was pleased with her and she was requested by name.

Yet Esther met with the approval of all who saw her. 2:16 Then Esther was taken to King Ahasuerus at his royal residence in the tenth month (that is, the month of Tebeth) in the seventh year of his reign. 2:17 And the king loved Esther more than all the other women, and she met with his loving approval more than all the other young women. So he placed the royal high turban on her head and appointed her queen in place of Vashti.

SOMETHIN’S GOTTA GIVE

Have Women given up their birthrights to become a Queen and settled for being a Tramp?

Is Being Single really Trendy!

IS CHIVALRY DEAD?

From BC ~ 1990’s

I’m definitely a 20th Century bred lady of the 21st century but some things you just miss or wish that you’d get to experience more of and for me it would be going out on a regular date; not a booty call. When the gentleman arrives (date) he brings a small token of appreciation for accepting the invitation like a bottle of wine, flowers, or sweets food is foreplay. The woman is dressed up sexy enough with mystery lurking to keep him wanting more. It would depend on what you like but for me it’s always roses & wine. Then for a first date I would love to either meet at a restaurant but if it’s the first on 20th date I want my companion for the evening to pull my chair act like he’s out with a lady. Stand up for me you know its corny now. But to me this kind of Chivalry is rarely seen in Men under 35 so it’s not dead among certain men who still remember passes along the old rules; LOL, and recently during a discussion some remarks were made about women over 40 and how we whine or only want to hash out bitter experiences. To my Girls over 40 you know that’s So not true the next twenties are the forties dude! And I’m heading forward toward Fabulous!!!! 50.

But, you still reminisce about the mystery and the romance if you have a memory of being treated that way. Men didn’t mind spending money on a date; the powder room cost you at least $20. A date… I actually got a proposal of marriage in a 5* restaurant once the evening still lives on it was magic!. It was so, so romantic the Matre’d brought the ring after the last course.. So sweet! We have a beautiful son 24yrs old. It will always be a memorable date and of course I’ll never forget that particular evening. But why don’t you still like to dress up and go out on the town not expecting to score big but just to enjoy an evening and impress the “Special Lady friend,” and on getting to know dates would you offer to pay cab rides or open doors for your date? Okay the economy is the best answer to all of that, but before that.. think back?

Here’s the priceless Kiss the hand, following it up with a compliment. Send me flowers damn it! Women like them all the time not just on Valentines day. Men can get creative when it comes to dating. And that’s how I’ll drop it on you in this 21st Century style of dating is highly competitive. Men have been cursed with a temptation revealed in prophesy if you understand cause and effect..

Is Chivalry dead or is it still romantic to be chivalrous? Sounds like a movie but guys did act like that once upon a time……….. And scored! I mean all the way.


Til Present Day

My truth, why should my femininity be in question? My truth, why can’t I love just one man, and expect my friends to respect my truth and find their own. My truth, why do men cheat? My truth, why do women and this would include transgenders like to cheat? My truth, why is it that in this present day and time it’s socially acceptable to have pre~marital sex have a family and cheat b/c everybody’s doing it!, My truth, how come a black man has to question if I’m a woman b/c so many “transgenders exist that are beautiful knockoffs! My truth, I hate Women’s Lib.. My truth, God’s original plan was that no man is meant to be alone. My truth, I will demand and stand my ground because GOD’s Plan according to...
 
Revelation 22  “A Final Reminder


22:6 Then the angel said to me, “These words are reliable and true. The Lord, the God of the spirits of the prophets, has sent his angel to show his servants what must happen soon.”


22:7 (Look! I am coming soon!


Blessed is the one who keeps the words of the prophecy expressed in this book.)


22:8 I, John, am the one who heard and saw these things, and when I heard and saw them, I threw myself down to worship at the feet of the angel who was showing them to me. 22:9 But he said to me, “Do not do this! I am a fellow servant with you and with your brothers the prophets, and with those who obey the words of this book. Worship God!” 22:10 Then he said to me, “Do not seal up the words of the prophecy contained in this book, because the time is near. 22:11 The evildoer must continue to do evil, and the one who is morally filthy must continue to be filthy. The one who is righteous must continue to act righteously, and the one who is holy must continue to be holy.”


22:12 (Look! I am coming soon, and my reward is with me to pay each one according to what he has done!


22:13 I am the Alpha and the Omega,


the first and the last,


the beginning and the end!)


22:14 Blessed are those who wash their robes so they can have access to the tree of life and can enter into the city by the gates. 22:15 Outside are the dogs and the sorcerers and the sexually immoral, and the murderers, and the idolaters and everyone who loves and practises falsehood!


22:16 “I, Jesus, have sent my angel to testify to you about these things for the churches. I am the root and the descendant of David, the bright morning star!” 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, “Come!” And let the one who hears say: “Come!” And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who wants it take the water of life free of charge.


22:18 I testify to the one who hears the words of the prophecy contained in this book: If anyone adds to them, God will add to him the plagues described in this book. 22:19 And if anyone takes away from the words of this book of prophecy, God will take away his share in the tree of life and in the holy city that are described in this book.


22:20 The one who testifies to these things says, “Yes, I am coming soon!” Amen! Come, Lord Jesus! 22: 
21 The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all.”

Most clergy and religious scholars point to the symbolism and truth but pray for "revelation knowledge of the scriptures the Gospel of Jesus Christ then do the work, research watch GOD perform a revelation in your life! 

Use Caution: Be careful how you pray and what you ask GOD for, because the tongue is powerful resource too. Discernment knowing your wants (free will) from your needs. He'll help you in need, (the desires of your heart) and cover you in during your foolishness. It's Not magic it's called having a love of self. Self Respect being able to give back more than you get without complaint or sorrow.

 To Thine own self be true.

GODs will. He only fulfills your needs according to his purpose...

I remember watching the notebook and enjoying that whole movie from beginning to end and watched with a man I truly loved, can’t express how it moved me at the end. She was his queen until the very end and what "GOD has joined together let no man pull asunder…  God designed all of this and we all are equally guilty of sin if you stole a Bic lighter or ink pen from work without asking, sorry it's called stealing... His way is break one done broke all,. So herein comes Jesus believe!

I will not give up my GOD given status as Lady n waiting or Queen in axle on this earth to submit to the wickedness of this sad, sad, world. It’s time for someone to say it out loud the whole damn world is bi~polar. Too many “women” not enough “men’ so read that last chapter of Revelation once again. Then maybe if you pray hard enough you might be able to buy a clue. Man is creating the rules as he trudges onward but you can’t live in this world and not see this time. Too much reality shows and too many damn rights and not enough wrongs! Where are those who are ready to really get it together. I’m no homophobic person just believe in the laws of nature. Taste! The fruit enjoy, but at the end of the day know who you really are! Whoever you are if your committed work hard at staying committed.. temptation makes it hard at times love one person. Life is not a square dance. Dose Doe and switch your partner.

Proverbs 31New International Version (NIV)

Sayings of King Lemuel

31 The sayings of King Lemuel—an inspired utterance his mother taught him.
Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!
    Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!
Do not spend your strength[a] on women,
    your vigor on those who ruin kings.




Nothing can happen without GOD's permission. He wrote the story... Alpha and Omega

There isn't a shortage of Men, they are simply enjoying the desperate [women] the varieties of the spices of life… “Sugar n Spice and everything under the damn sun nice! "

God Bless #SHOWSOMELOVE
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